"The choices you make about the people you invite into your life are the most important choices you can make, and you need to make sure you're choosing these people based on the right reasons."
i heard many people say that it is always better to have more friends. 多一个朋友，就多一个出路。but is that true? i have wondered this for quite some time, and yet to come up with a conclusion, until today, when i come across the sentence above from horoscope for Virgo on 4th May 2008.
first of all, i don't think that it's good to befriend whoever you can find. friends influence you. if you got the wrong types of friends, then you are playing with fire. some day, you might end up becoming like one of them or becoming into someone that you wouldn't wish to become. it might not be something bad, but you can just know that you are not your old self anymore. you have changed for the better or worse, only you, yourself can tell.
then, i think it's not appropriate to make friends for a reason, a specific one. just be friends for the sake of being friends, simple. argh, this is complicated. people tend to think in a much complicated manner when they grow older. some think that it's a sign of getting more mature, but complicating things always makes things tough to handle.
so, back to the topic, just choose your friends properly, and treasure them, if they deserve it. imagine a photo album, with your own photos only. surely, it's not as nice as and as colorful as a photo album with you+your friends' photo. no one can live without their friends...
Cheers to all my friends. I love you guys ^^
i heard many people say that it is always better to have more friends. 多一个朋友，就多一个出路。but is that true? i have wondered this for quite some time, and yet to come up with a conclusion, until today, when i come across the sentence above from horoscope for Virgo on 4th May 2008.
first of all, i don't think that it's good to befriend whoever you can find. friends influence you. if you got the wrong types of friends, then you are playing with fire. some day, you might end up becoming like one of them or becoming into someone that you wouldn't wish to become. it might not be something bad, but you can just know that you are not your old self anymore. you have changed for the better or worse, only you, yourself can tell.
then, i think it's not appropriate to make friends for a reason, a specific one. just be friends for the sake of being friends, simple. argh, this is complicated. people tend to think in a much complicated manner when they grow older. some think that it's a sign of getting more mature, but complicating things always makes things tough to handle.
so, back to the topic, just choose your friends properly, and treasure them, if they deserve it. imagine a photo album, with your own photos only. surely, it's not as nice as and as colorful as a photo album with you+your friends' photo. no one can live without their friends...
Cheers to all my friends. I love you guys ^^
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